{"id":19766,"date":"2025-09-09T09:11:44","date_gmt":"2025-09-09T07:11:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sygeplejevidenskab.dk\/?p=19766"},"modified":"2026-05-06T12:08:54","modified_gmt":"2026-05-06T10:08:54","slug":"sorgs-paavirkning-paa-faedres-seksualitet-i-forbindelse-med-alvorlig-sygdom-og-doed-et-kvalitativt-studie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sygeplejevidenskab.dk\/index.php\/2025\/09\/09\/sorgs-paavirkning-paa-faedres-seksualitet-i-forbindelse-med-alvorlig-sygdom-og-doed-et-kvalitativt-studie\/","title":{"rendered":"Sorgs p\u00e5virkning p\u00e5 f\u00e6dres seksualitet i forbindelse med alvorlig sygdom og d\u00f8d &#8211; et kvalitativt studie"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wc_ppp_paywall wc_ppp_paywall_19766\"><div class=\"elementor-text-editor\">\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-19776 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/sygeplejevidenskab.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Illustration-1.png?resize=703%2C342&#038;quality=85&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"703\" height=\"342\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-on font-feature-clig-on font-feature-calt-on text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\">Kari Friis Larsen <\/span><strong><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-on font-feature-clig-on font-feature-calt-on text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none font-size-modifier vertical-align\">1<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-on font-feature-clig-on font-feature-calt-on text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\">, Malene Beck <\/span><strong><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-on font-feature-clig-on font-feature-calt-on text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none font-size-modifier vertical-align\">2<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-on font-feature-clig-on font-feature-calt-on text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"> , Birgitte Schantz Lauersen <\/span><strong><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-on font-feature-clig-on font-feature-calt-on text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none font-size-modifier vertical-align\">3<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\"><strong><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-on font-feature-clig-on font-feature-calt-on text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\">1<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-on font-feature-clig-on font-feature-calt-on text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"> Palliationssygeplejerske, Master i Sexologi, B\u00f8rne og Unge Palliationen Region Sj\u00e6lland, B\u00f8rne og Unge Afdelingen. SUH Roskilde.<br \/>\n<\/span><strong style=\"font-size: 16px\"><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-on font-feature-clig-on font-feature-calt-on text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\">2<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-on font-feature-clig-on font-feature-calt-on text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\" style=\"font-size: 16px\"> Forskningsleder og Lektor, B\u00f8rne og Unge Afdelingen, Sj\u00e6llands Universitetshospital, Region Sj\u00e6lland &amp; Institut for Regional Sundhed, SDU.<br \/>\n<\/span><strong><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-on font-feature-clig-on font-feature-calt-on text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\">3<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-on font-feature-clig-on font-feature-calt-on text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"> Sygeplejerske, cand.cur., ph.d, lektor, klinisk sexolog, Forskningsenhed for Klinisk Sygepleje, Aalborg Universitetshospital &amp; Sexologisk Forskningscenter Aalborg Universitet.<\/span><\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"relative font-sans text-base text-foreground selection:bg-super\/50 selection:text-foreground dark:selection:bg-super\/10 dark:selection:text-super\">\n<div class=\"min-w-0 break-words [word-break:break-word]\">\n<div id=\"markdown-content-23\" class=\"gap-y-md after:clear-both after:block after:content-['']\" dir=\"auto\" lang=\"en\">\n<div class=\"has-inline-images my-2 first:mt-0 [&amp;:has([data-inline-type=image])+&amp;:has([data-inline-type=image])_[data-inline-type=image]]:hidden [&amp;:has(table)_[data-inline-type=image]]:hidden\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"prose dark:prose-invert inline leading-relaxed break-words min-w-0 [word-break:break-word] prose-strong:font-bold [&amp;_&gt;*:first-child]:mt-0 [&amp;_&gt;*:last-child]:mb-0\">\n<div data-renderer=\"lm\">\n<div class=\"farve-boks\" style=\"border: 10px solid #bfe6f6;padding: 16px 32px;border-radius: 24px;color: black;margin-bottom: 32px\">\n<p class=\"cvGsUA direction-ltr align-justify para-style-body\"><strong><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-off font-feature-clig-off font-feature-calt-off text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\">Resum\u00e9<br \/>\n<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-off font-feature-clig-off font-feature-calt-off text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\">Artiklen er baseret p\u00e5 et Kari Friis Larsens masterprojekt i sexologi fra Aalborg Universitet, 2025.<br \/>\n<\/span><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-off font-feature-clig-off font-feature-calt-off text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\">Form\u00e5let med masterprojektet var at belyse, hvordan f\u00e6dres seksualitet blev p\u00e5virket, i forbindelse med deres barns alvorlige sygdom og d\u00f8d.<br \/>\n<\/span><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-off font-feature-clig-off font-feature-calt-off text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\">Gennem f\u00e6drenes perspektiver udforskes seksualitetens rolle som en livsbekr\u00e6ftende, aflastende oplevelse, der ogs\u00e5 indeholder et konfliktfelt. \u2018Jeg formen\u2019 i artiklen refererer til artiklens f\u00f8rste forfatter Kari Friis Larsen.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"cvGsUA direction-ltr align-justify para-style-body\"><strong><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-off font-feature-clig-off font-feature-calt-off text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\">Introduktion<br \/>\n<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-off font-feature-clig-off font-feature-calt-off text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\">Mit arbejde i B\u00f8rne og Unge Palliationen i Region Sj\u00e6lland (BUPS) har gennem \u00e5rene vist mig, hvor sv\u00e6rt det kan v\u00e6re for for\u00e6ldre til alvorligt syge b\u00f8rn at bevare et parforhold, hvor der ogs\u00e5 er plads til intimitet og seksualitet. Mange par oplever, at relationen gradvist forandres \u2013 fra k\u00e6rlighedsforhold til et slags kollegaskab, hvor hverdagen domineres af logistik, behandlingsforl\u00f8b og en konstant kamp for at f\u00e5 livet til at h\u00e6nge sammen. Seksualiteten skubbes til side, ikke n\u00f8dvendigvis fordi den ikke l\u00e6ngere betyder noget, men fordi der ikke er plads, sprog eller overskud. <\/span><span class=\"a_GcMg font-feature-liga-off font-feature-clig-off font-feature-calt-off text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\">Ved f\u00f8rste \u00f8jekast kan seksualitet og sorg synes at st\u00e5 i mods\u00e6tning til hinanden, men i m\u00f8det med alvorlig sygdom og tab bliver seksualiteten ofte netop tydelig. Den viser sig som frav\u00e6r, som l\u00e6ngsel, som konflikt eller som en kropslig s\u00f8gen efter lindring og kontakt.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mx-auto flex flex-col pointer-events-auto max-w-threadContentWidth gap-md md:gap-lg\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col gap-md @3xl:gap-lg w-full pt-md @3xl:pt-lg\">\n<div class=\"w-full\">\n<div class=\"w-full flex flex-col\">\n<div id=\"radix-_r_4q_-content-default\" class=\"focus:outline-none\" role=\"tabpanel\" data-state=\"active\" data-orientation=\"horizontal\" aria-labelledby=\"radix-_r_4q_-trigger-default\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col @3xl:gap-y-lg gap-y-md\">\n<div class=\"gap-y-sm flex flex-col\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"relative font-sans text-base text-foreground selection:bg-super\/50 selection:text-foreground dark:selection:bg-super\/10 dark:selection:text-super\">\n<div class=\"min-w-0 break-words [word-break:break-word]\">\n<div id=\"markdown-content-23\" class=\"gap-y-md after:clear-both after:block after:content-['']\" dir=\"auto\" lang=\"en\">\n<div class=\"has-inline-images my-2 first:mt-0 [&amp;:has([data-inline-type=image])+&amp;:has([data-inline-type=image])_[data-inline-type=image]]:hidden [&amp;:has(table)_[data-inline-type=image]]:hidden\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"prose dark:prose-invert inline leading-relaxed break-words min-w-0 [word-break:break-word] prose-strong:font-bold [&amp;_&gt;*:first-child]:mt-0 [&amp;_&gt;*:last-child]:mb-0\">\n<div data-renderer=\"lm\">\n<div class=\"farve-boks\" style=\"border: 10px solid #bfe6f6;padding: 16px 32px;border-radius: 24px;color: black;margin-bottom: 32px\">\n<h4><strong>English Abstract<\/p>\n<p><\/strong><\/h4>\n<h5 class=\"my-2 [&amp;+p]:mt-4 [&amp;_strong:has(+br)]:inline-block [&amp;_strong:has(+br)]:pb-2\"><strong>Grief\u2019s impact on fathers\u2019 sexuality in the context of serious illness and death \u2013 a qualitative study<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p class=\"my-2 [&amp;+p]:mt-4 [&amp;_strong:has(+br)]:inline-block [&amp;_strong:has(+br)]:pb-2\">\nThis article is based on Kari Friis Larsen\u2019s master\u2019s project in Sexology at Aalborg University, 2025. The aim of the master\u2019s project was to explore how fathers\u2019 sexuality is affected in connection with their child\u2019s serious illness and death. Through the fathers\u2019 perspectives, the role of sexuality is examined as a life-affirming and relieving experience that simultaneously contains an inner field of conflict. The use of the first-person \u201cI\u201d in the article refers to the article\u2019s first author, Kari Friis Larsen.<\/p>\n<p class=\"my-2 [&amp;+p]:mt-4 [&amp;_strong:has(+br)]:inline-block [&amp;_strong:has(+br)]:pb-2\"><strong>Introduction<\/strong><br \/>\nMy work in Paediatric and Adolescent Palliative Care in the Region of Zealand (BUPS) has, over the years, shown me how difficult it can be for parents of seriously ill children to maintain a relationship in which there is still room for intimacy and sexuality. Many couples experience that their relationship gradually changes \u2013 from a loving partnership to a kind of collegial relationship, where everyday life is dominated by logistics, treatment regimens, and a constant struggle to make life hang together. Sexuality is pushed aside, not necessarily because it no longer matters, but because there is no space, language, or energy for it. At first glance, sexuality and grief may appear to be in opposition, but when faced with serious illness and loss, sexuality often becomes particularly visible. 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